Iris at Eleven

Planner creative brief · New York City

Make it feel
like Iris.

An intimate eleventh birthday in her family’s apartment. Pretty without being precious, playful without feeling little-kid, and created smartly for a real home and a real-world budget.

This is a brief, not a recipe. We are sharing the ingredients and asking for your point of view.

For planners Send a five-minute reply →
Iris smiling with her dad, AdamThis is Iris
Friends customizing journals and keepsakes togetherMake + laugh
Blue, chrome, bows, dirty soda and flash photographyColor + flash
Room energyKATSEYEZara Larsson · Olivia Rodrigo
Bows · dirty soda · Koko · SoHo · “The Fall I Turned Eleven”
The assignment

Create the world.
Don’t execute a theme.

We are looking for one creative producer who can listen closely, edit confidently, and turn a collection of possibilities into one coherent afternoon.

Iris likes beauty, but she does not want to be put inside a “fancy party” costume. The right world feels current, personal, playful, a little downtown, and still special enough to mark turning eleven.

We do not need every idea below. We want to see which pieces you believe in, what you would leave out, and what only you would add.

Iris with her dad, Adam, smiling together
Iris with her dad, Adam.
The person at the center

This specific girl.

Iris is eleven, lives in New York, and knows when something feels made for younger kids. She wants a soft, social afternoon built around making something, taking photographs, and being with about twenty close school friends—not a party package with her name applied to it. She loves horseback riding and her pony, Koko—short for Kokomo; one real photograph or story belongs in the world, but this is not a pony theme.

The feeling

Soft. Social.
Pop.

Iris chose pretty, relaxed and cozy without feeling babyish. She is drawn to both airy blue and confident pink, so these are two related ways into the same world—not sealed-off palettes. Choose one color to lead and let the other appear in controlled 10–15% accents. Chrome, color-flash photographs, neon signage and “The Fall I Turned Eleven” sharpen either direction without making it fancy.

SoftSocialPersonalizedPopCozyCurrent
Direction A

Powder Blue Afterglow

Airy powder-blue, chrome and neon-pink apartment-party direction for Iris’s birthday
Silvery powder blue and daylight lead. Hot pink is welcome as the 10–15% electric accent—in neon, ribbon or one graphic moment, never an equal pastel split.
Direction B

Sunlit Pink Pop

Activity-led sunlit-pink, crisp-white and chrome apartment-party direction for Iris’s birthday
Confident pink, crisp white and chrome lead. Icy blue is welcome as the 10–15% fresh accent—in a ribbon, cup stripe, patch or printed detail, never an equal pastel split.

The creative temperature

KATSEYE · Zara
Olivia

KATSEYE is a real Iris preference, not mood-board garnish. Their bright performance polish—with Zara Larsson and Olivia Rodrigo as supporting references—should inform energy, color and confidence without becoming artist-themed décor.
The pieces on the table

Use them.
Remix them.
Lose them.

These are pieces, not separate stations. We want a creative partner to edit and sequence them into one easy afternoon—and replace anything only when the new idea is better.

01

A real apartment

The intimacy is an advantage. Make the home feel considered and changed without disguising it as a venue—or spending money trying to.

02

SpaLaLa as a likely rotation

A compact spa corner remains a front-runner, but it does not need to be the whole party or even the main making moment. It can be replaced only by an idea that is clearly cooler and works just as well in the apartment.

03

Something always happening beside it

The dirty soda and snack bar, color-flash photographs, easy games, music and conversation stay available while friends rotate. No line, no dead time, and no need for everyone to move in lockstep.

04

Customization as the main making moment

Iris wants to make or customize something. The personalized book/journal idea is the strongest current reference: useful, social, easy to do while talking, and personal enough to keep.

05

Who Knows Iris Best?

A short, funny whole-group beat built from Iris’s real answers, with a designed game card and reveal. It should feel like part of the visual world—not a worksheet downloaded from a party site.

06

A cool photo setup — likely

A compact booth or photographer-led setup that girls can drop into throughout the party: flattering light, a strong graphic treatment, instant or digital keepsakes, and one great group photograph. No plastic-prop bin or magic-mirror energy.

07

Dessert with character

Cake, Funny Face Bakery, or something equally photogenic and specific to Iris. We are open to the planner’s better idea.

08

A complete handoff

The lead producer owns the whole experience: creative direction, vendors, timing, setup, guest flow, teardown, cleanup, and apartment reset.

What must survive every interpretation

The outcome
is the brief.

The format can change. These six things cannot.

Iris feels seen

The party could not have been made for just any eleven-year-old.

Her friends feel at ease

They are engaged but not managed, and there is room for normal conversation.

The apartment feels transformed

Beautiful and atmospheric, while still recognizably a home.

The age feels exactly right

Cool and fashion-aware; neither childish nor prematurely adult.

The parents are guests

One professional lead carries the details and returns the apartment at the end.

The memories look as good as they felt

Natural photographs, one strong group moment, and no forced photo-booth energy.

The edges

What it
isn’t.

No face painting, glitter tattoos, character styling, giant balloon wall, generic spa clichés, green in the working palette, or tables covered in disconnected crafts. No faux-luxury production or spending that does not materially improve the girls’ experience. We are after taste, energy, warmth, and an afternoon they actually enjoy.

The practical frame

Enough structure
to create freely.

Occasion
Iris’s 11th birthday
Setting
Family apartment · New York City
Working budget
Please propose a realistic all-in base scope, with any meaningful upgrades priced separately
Guest experience
Approximately three hours
Date
Sunday, September 27 or Sunday, October 4, 2026
Headcount
Approximately 20 close school friends
Required scope
Concept through full apartment reset
Next-stage inputs
Apartment photos, measurements, building rules, timing
What we would love back

A five-minute
reply is enough.

We are choosing a creative partner, not comparing package lists. Tell us whether it sparks an idea, what you would own, and what a realistic all-in scope looks like. No proposal deck required.

  1. 01Your creative interpretation in a few sentences—not a menu of packages.
  2. 02Which ingredients you would keep, change, combine, or remove.
  3. 03The emotional arc of the afternoon and the role of any anchor experience.
  4. 04How you would use the apartment without crowding it or overbuilding it.
  5. 05What your team would own from first delivery through final cleanup.
  6. 06A preliminary scope, honest budget fit, availability, and one or two complete relevant projects—not just detail shots.
Send a quick response →

If the brief sparks a clear idea, we would love to see your take.

Make it unmistakably Iris.