A real apartment
The intimacy is an advantage. Make the home feel considered and changed without disguising it as a venue—or spending money trying to.
Planner creative brief · New York City
An intimate eleventh birthday in her family’s apartment. Pretty without being precious, playful without feeling little-kid, and created smartly for a real home and a real-world budget.
This is a brief, not a recipe. We are sharing the raw material and asking you to make the song.

We are looking for one creative producer who can listen closely, edit confidently, and turn a collection of possibilities into one coherent afternoon.
Iris likes beauty, but she does not want to be put inside a “fancy party” costume. The right world feels current, personal, playful, a little downtown, and still special enough to mark turning eleven.
We do not need every idea below. We want to see which pieces you believe in, what you would leave out, and what only you would add.

Iris is eleven, lives in New York, and knows when something feels made for younger kids. She wants an afternoon that feels social, expressive, and genuinely hers—not a party package with her name applied to it. She loves horseback riding and her pony, Coco; that is personal source material, not an instruction to make a pony-themed party.
LoveShackFancy softness with a little New York scuff: romantic but not precious, expressive but not overstyled, photogenic but not staged. A polished idea with some looseness left in it.

The creative temperature
These are pieces, not eight separate stations. We want a creative partner to edit and sequence them into one easy afternoon—and replace anything only when the new idea is better.
The intimacy is an advantage. Make the home feel considered and changed without disguising it as a venue—or spending money trying to.
A compact spa corner is the current front-runner. It can be replaced, but only by an idea that is clearly cooler and works just as well in the apartment.
Music, food, conversation and one or two easy drop-in things while friends rotate through the spa corner. No line, no dead time, and no need for everyone to move in lockstep.
A short, funny whole-group beat built from Iris’s real answers, with a designed game card and reveal. It should feel like part of the visual world—not a worksheet downloaded from a party site.
A compact booth or photographer-led setup that girls can drop into throughout the party: flattering light, a strong graphic treatment, instant or digital keepsakes, and one great group photograph. No plastic-prop bin or magic-mirror energy.
A bag, pouch, journal, portrait, or another useful keepsake could be lovely. It should feel intentional—not like a mandatory craft station.
Cake, Funny Face Bakery, or something equally photogenic and specific to Iris. We are open to the planner’s better idea.
The lead producer owns the whole experience: creative direction, vendors, timing, setup, guest flow, teardown, cleanup, and apartment reset.
The format can change. These six things cannot.
The party could not have been made for just any eleven-year-old.
They are engaged but not managed, and there is room for normal conversation.
Beautiful and atmospheric, while still recognizably a home.
Cool and fashion-aware; neither childish nor prematurely adult.
One professional lead carries the details and returns the apartment at the end.
Natural photographs, one strong group moment, and no forced photo-booth energy.
No face painting, glitter tattoos, character styling, giant balloon wall, generic pink-spa clichés, or tables covered in disconnected crafts. No faux-luxury production or attempt to make a $3,000 party impersonate a $30,000 one. We are after taste, energy, warmth, and an experience the girls actually enjoy.
We are choosing a creative partner, not comparing package lists. A concise response with conviction is more useful than a long deck.
If the brief sparks a clear idea, we want to hear it.